THE PEACEFUL ONES

OMG! Have mercy on their souls for what is going in this world right now…

The Peaceful Ones are such: peaceful. They are all about harmony and cooperation. If ever war would break out with the other people, the Peaceful Ones will just watch from a distance and wait to see who wins and then will ally with who ever is the winning team. The only thing that matters for these people is that we all get along.

When a Peaceful One is validated they are very competent, consistent with what they are doing, very witty, the most patient person in the world, of course peaceful, and are very good listener.

When feeling misunderstood, they get very fearful and worried, they will not be able to make decisions, they will shy out of any occasions, they will get little motivation if not at all, they will then resent being pushed and then they will resist change.

You could say that their favorite way of transportation is a boat on a very calm sea. They wouldn’t even use the oars but maybe would just propel the boat with their hands. Plain peaceful, no waves. (These people normally get married or associated with people that would dive from the boat and scream “Yahoo”, but anyway…)  A Peaceful One believes that everyone should get along, have a stress free life and without conflict.

Peaceful Ones don’t have a lot of highs and lows when they speak. Most of the time you need to be very attentive that what they are saying since it is not going to be in a loud resounding voice. And, they are not that excitable. So, your comments might feel like not interesting to them. This doesn’t necessarily go with Pleasurable Ones that need to be noticed. Peaceful Ones can go for long period of not speaking and that is fine with them because silence is peaceful. Other people might not understand that but it is okay with Peaceful Ones. And, then all of sudden they might surprise you with a burst of unexpected humor.

Sometimes they might be looked as being lazy because they are going to do things very differently from others. They will not use that much energy, but will still get the job done.

They have very good social skills, and are very cooperative. But this can be a problem for them because they can be pushed around easily by others. Powerful Ones might say to them: “You need to be more productive”. And, the Peaceful Ones will say: “Ya, sure”.

Pleasurable Ones might say that they would need to be more excited about life. And again they would agree.

The Refined Ones might say: “Let me show you how you can get better” and they would still agree with what they say.

But, if you push Peaceful Ones too much to the point that you start insulting them, they can shut down completely. Peaceful Ones don’t do well in conflicts. As you can see, their favorite language is anything to do with “no hassle”, they want it the “easy way”, and done in a “relax” state, everything needs to be “low maintenance”. They also need to be “respected” for who they are and you will find very “smart” people in this category.

So to summarize Peaceful Ones they would the ones that wants everyone to get along. Their greatest need would be for us to respect them. Their favorite vehicle would be anything not going fast and not too much steering.  Their favorite environment with have to be calm but productive.  Favorite language: “no-hassle”, “easy-way”, “relax”, “low maintenance”, “respect”, and “smart”. They normally do not acknowledge your comments, and there could be long silence during conversation, no highs or lows in their voice, but all of a sudden they could surprise you with some humor. At their best they are competent, consistent, witty, patient and very good listeners. At their worst they become fearful, worried, shy, unmotivated, and indecisive, resist change and won’t be pushed around.

THE POWERFUL ONES                           THE REFINED ONES                            THE PEACEFUL ONES                            THE PLEASURABLE ONES

You might also refer to the Dominant and Secondary traits after receiving your results from the assessment made in the 5th session of the Webinar.